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Off-limits questions cheat sheet

Topics you cannot ask about in an interview — age, family, citizenship, religion, disability — paired with safe substitute questions for the things you actually want to know.

Updated May 15, 2026

A small but important set of topics is off-limits in a hiring conversation. The rule isn’t “never bring it up” — it’s “never invite the candidate to disclose it, even casually.”

This cheat sheet pairs each off-limits topic with the legitimate underlying question and how to phrase that one safely.

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